Welcome back! This is DAY 4 of crushing the singles game. Today is going to be a super short video (didn’t really end up being that short… 🙂 ) because I have a wonderful task. I want you to focus all of your time on that task, not so much on this video.
Yesterday we talked about cultivating new relationships that aren’t just romantic, so we can find satisfaction and happiness through our friendships, family relationships, pet relationships. There are lots of different ways that don’t include a romantic connection.
So… what I want you to do today… GO MAKE A FRIEND.
uhhhhhh, let me tell you, I know that sounds easy, but you are probably sitting there like that is REALLY NOT easy. I get it, trust me, making friends is not always easy. We’re not looking at this as a lifelong friend or the person you are going to go to with everything. Create a new relationship with someone that you can hang out with every now and then or that you can rely on with something.
It can be someone that is already in your circle that you don’t connect with as well, try to cultivate that relationship. Someone you meet at the coffee shop or go to the gym and awkwardly ask someone to go get coffee with you. Or go get a protein shake, because I mean, you are at the gym.
Maybe go to an animal shelter and play with some animals, they count as friends in my eyes. It doesn’t matter how you do it, I just want you to get out there and try to make a new friend. Someone that can provide benefits that you don’t get when you aren’t in a relationship as much as you do when you are.
That’s all I have for you today, I will see you tomorrow, have fun making a friend!
because being single is NOT always easy.
Links to each part of the series will be added here when complete:
Introduction: https://seasidecounselingcenter.com/crushing-the-singles-game-vlog-series/
Part 1: https://seasidecounselingcenter.com/crushing-the-singles-game-vlog-series-part-1/
Part 2: https://seasidecounselingcenter.com/crushing-the-singles-game-vlog-series-part-2/
Part 3: https://seasidecounselingcenter.com/crushing-the-singles-game-vlog-series-part-3/
Part 4: https://seasidecounselingcenter.com/crushing-the-singles-game-vlog-series-part-4/
Part 5: https://seasidecounselingcenter.com/crushing-the-singles-game-vlog-series-part-5/
Part 6: https://seasidecounselingcenter.com/crushing-the-singles-game-vlog-series-part-6/
Rachel Cohen, MSW, LCSW is the owner and therapist at Seaside Counseling Center in Jacksonville Beach, FL. Rachel works with lonely, frustrated, and overwhelmed teens, 20 something’s, and new (or soon to be) mothers throughout Florida.